Starseeds and Loneliness
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Welcome back beautiful souls.
…I’m going to be honest.
I just had another in-person client for energy healing today and the topic of Starseeds and Loneliness came up. This makes loneliness as a Starseed a topic that has come up to literally every single Starseed I’ve ever met. Every single one of them. Yep!
If you’re reading this and you’re not sure what a Starseed is, or whether you are one, check out my other article on Medium: “Are You a Starseed?” (Not all of my readers are starseeds, but I can tell you that most (if not all) of my clients are).
When it comes to being a starseed, we have all the traits that empaths and HSP (highly-sensitive-people) do: we’re hyper-sensitive to our environment, to foods, to stimuli… to energy, to people, to positive and negative events and interactions. The thing that all starseeds seem to encounter (that maybe not all HSPs and Empaths encounter without identifying as a starseed), is an incredible, persistent, deep sense of loneliness. This feeling permeates our relationships, our day-to-day lives, and our general feeling on this planet. And truthfully? No Wonder.
If you caught my most recent article on medium, about Starseeds and Their purpose on this planet, you’ll know that the whole reason we’re all down here is to bring our perspectives of love, joyousness of living and a desire for a more peaceful way to this planet. As starseed souls on the Planetary system of Gaia, we’re on a mission to spread loving energy and pure light-consciousness to those of us around us. That mission brings two unique truths with it:
If our mission is to remind human-rooted souls (souls who have had thousands of lives / past lives rooted on Gaia and are part of the planet’s history) of the joy, unconditional love and peace that’s available to them and accessible at all times, chances are we’re not going to be surrounded by our kind. This can be tough, and it is lonely, and it’s true. If we got to come down here and complete this mission and be completely surrounded by souls like us all the time, we wouldn’t really be spreading out light to those who need it most, would we? It’s like if we were in a class of students — and we were asked to split into 5 groups, where every group needed to have at least one person who was really good at soccer — and all the athletes made a group with each other. It would leave the rest of the students feeling a bit bleh about it all, wouldn’t it? The same principle applies. It’s not an easy truth, but I hope it’s a validating one. The lucky thing about this current phase of the planet is that more Starseeds than ever are getting the chance to meet, connect and interact with each other. The rainbow children generation (aka Gen-Z), will have more opportunities than ever before to connect to other souls from Starseed origins. (And before you say “lucky them!” … Gently remind yourself that they’re getting this opportunity to connect because they will be in deep need of each other’s support as we head towards the crux in transition as the old paradigms fall away: Housing insecurity, food insecurity, healthcare….) … I digress.
The second truth that I hope deeply resonates with you lonely starseeds is the simple truth that we are visitors to this planet, on a mission we volunteered to be here for. That means that our souls origins have truly come from somewhere else, and our soul codes, embodiment and soul-expression have adapted to being on this planet — but our roots have us longing for where we were before. It can be helpful to do some digging as to ‘which starseed are you?’ To try and find a little more about your origins — but the information on the internet tends to be filled with a lot of folks who aren’t actually starseeds who are taking a stab at guessing which lineages have which traits. (If you want to book a starseed origin mapping session with me, you can do so here). It can still be helpful to explore, though, and I would encourage you to do some exploring (paired with some critical discernment) in regards to which lineage you might originally herald from (yes, it’s also possible to have a mix of traits. Starseed lineages are like human races — you can be a mix and blend of more than one).
What I want you to know in this article is that it is absolutely normal to feel super lonely when it comes to walking around on Gaia in your lovely, squishy human bodies with your vast, expansive starseed souls.
So What to Do About it?
There are a few key things we can do to keep the deep loneliness at bay during our path, mission and lifetime here as a starseed incarnated on Planet Earth.
Connect to other Starseeds. Find an online community, Follow other starseeds on Youtube / social media, have that I-think-You-Might-be-a-Starseed talk with your friend who’s pretty cosmic. Look out into the world. Ask your guides to connect you with other Starseeds. Email them. Keep in touch.
Get a therapist / healer / coach / healing practitioner that knows what starseeds are and can empathize with you. I’ve been lucky enough in my life to have a medium who is a starseed. I’ve basically treated her like my spiritual therapist since I met her in 2018. She has been monumental to helping me feel validated about my journey.
Spiritual coaches who are also starseeds:
Beth Katherine
Laura Warren
Dynasty Electrik
Auburn Lily
Me!
3. Understand that loneliness is part of the mission of this journey and that you’re truly not alone out there. There are others just like you. We are exchange students on planet Earth, kids in a new neighbourhood at a new school: walking this journey of life in a territory that is new and unknown to us. We may not have soul origins that originate from Gaia, but you must remember you are welcome here, you are meant to be here, and that you belong. You would not be here otherwise. I know that sometimes this truth can feel like a burden; like too much. Just remember that you are a sacred warrior who is fulfilling their soul’s purpose by being here. The earth needs you.
We need you.
We need each other.
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