The #1 channelled message for 2024

This message hit me harder than any other message for wrapping up 2023

I was talking one of my creative coaching friends the other day about coming onto her YouTube channel and pulling a card for the collective for 2024. She laughed, acknowledging “it’s kind of a lot to put on one card!”

I was excited by the idea.

I had just done the reading for the New Moon in Sagittarius, which will be our last new moon of the year coming up this Tuesday on Dec 12. In my energy forecast, I had a topic come up strongly that stuck with me.

Then, when I tuned in to channel for the energy forecast I write as part of my bi-weekly energy updates, the same message came up.

So in light of embracing the newness coming towards us as we wrap up the year for 2023, I want to share the single most important channelled download I’ve received for 2024:


Drop the belief you’re a lone wolf; it’s time to embrace the pack.

This truth, especially as starseeds, is the most important piece of information you can take forwards are we close out 2023 and move into the fast-moving, expansive and rapidly-manifesting energy of 2024.

As a starseed, intuitive healer and psychic, I have pretty much always held the belief I was meant to stand out; which meant to some degree, I would always stand alone. After spending years thinking no one could possibly understand me, I realized that when I was seeking the quiet, soul-expanding nurturance of solitude, I would mistakenly explore that in the form of deep isolation. I love to travel alone — I find I meet the most interesting people, gain the most interesting experiences and really get a chance to fully experience the place in the way spirit would have me. I realized, however, that if I’m travelling alone, I don’t also have to live alone. And work alone, from home. And exercise alone. And take myself on dates alone.

See where the line of solitude begins to blur into the deafening silence of isolation?

This is something that has plagued me for years, until it began to dawn on me that maybe this was something I was bringing on myself.

These were the beliefs I held:

I’m a healer, from a lineage of gypsy mystics and star-based ancenstry, so in the modern, 3D world, that must mean I have to live like a witch; alone in the woods.

I crave solitude and deep periods of silence — and so instead of seeking that silence through going for weekend drives or walks in nature, bringing my book alone to the beach, or finding the peace I crave in the silence of a bath, it must mean I have to live totally alone. (This one has been the biggest game changer for me — living with roommates has literally been one the healthiest and most grounding ways for me to live in this current chapter of my life).

I carried false beliefs of separation with me for years. I figured, hell, I was different enough, so I may as well believe that I’m so different and no one gets me.

As a starseed, this is literally the most dangerous thinking you can employ.

Here are the most damaging thought patterns I’m ditching (and you should too) for 2024:

#1 False Belief

I’m never going to find anyone who gets me (I feel different, so I guess I’m meant to stay feeling different):

As starseeds, our purpose here on earth is to help the planet in the ascension process by raising the collective frequency through emanating our unique light and unconditional love. As humans, we’re wired to connect. When we begin to feed this belief of being “too different” to ever find the “right” people: the right friends, the right support group, the right partner … we’re basically painting ourselves an energetic line around us that says: Stay out, do not cross. And regardless of how “awake” or “asleep” people are, they can sense that energy emanating from you. … Which begets more loneliness. Which feeds into the vicious cycle of our belief that we’re just too dang different to be fully seen, heard, accepted and loved. Ouch. That is dangerous territory.

#2 False Belief

My friends aren’t starseeds and don’t get my spiritual work, so I’m going to pull back and wait for “my kind” (aka, I’m going to have to brave this alone):

This one tripped me up for years. and the sticky thing about having this belief that if your friends aren’t on the exact same spiritual trajectory as you, then you can’t hang, be vulnerable or be close with them, is this:

waiting for friends who are as deeply intuitive, metaphysically-interested or sensitive as you means you are

a) going to wait forever, since you’re basically a banana in a fruit basket refusing to connect with any other SUPER AWESOME COOL fruits that aren’t bananas, or

b) you’re going to create and incredibly small, intense group of intimate friends who are all going to be going through the same stuff at the same time, which may eventually disconnect you from the larger picture (and task) at hand.

I know it can seem frustrating to feel like you have to “play human” and mosh around with the other beings that aren’t as tuned in, connected and sensitive as you. But here’s the really beautiful part about that truth:

When you connect with friends who are different than you, they can help pull you out of your sensitivity, as well as help you out with more mundane, ‘life’ issues you struggle with. For real!! I got myself some regular-ass, non-metaphysical friends this year and it’s simply the best thing I could have ever done with myself. And the best part? Half of them are still into the spiritual and metaphysical realm. They’re not as intensely into as I am, but they’re here for it, and it helps me feel less alone.

If we were all starseeds hanging out as a group of starseeds, the greater picture of our spiritual work (helping the planet), would never get done.

So get out there and get yourself some regular-ass friends!!

#3 False Belief

My intuitive ancestors before me braved the path alone through divorce, loneliness, isolation (and so I guess I must carry that torch as well):

As soon as you read this one, hopefully you can realize how incredibly ineffective this is. Sure — maybe the lineage before you — or even the star family you’re connected to has gone through great and terrible trauma, and often suffered alone. Perhaps isolation and struggle is deeply embedded in your historic soul codes, or perhaps you’ve even seen yourself in visions as being a “torch bearer” or “sacred messenger” of some sort — which usually means solo-living.

I get it! There is deep truth behind what we understand to be our path and purpose, and of course we carry the deep codes of our ancestors (star-related or not).

But here’s the thing about that belief (and those visions): While it may be true that the deeply spiritual role you carry is a individual pursuit, the life you create surrounding it does not have to be. Do I thrive living with others, working in a busy environment, and socializing all the time? Absolutely not. Is my work mostly deep work, very intimate, and requires me to have a lot of alone time? Absolutely. Do I feel like the messages I have for the collective are coming through me and me alone — and so it is an “individual” experience when I channel! For sure!

But my daily life, from waking to sleeping, does not have to completely encapsulate the sense of deep, quiet solitude. This is where the expression “don’t throw the baby out with the bath water” comes in:

“don’t throw connection out with the work you’ve been given.”

Here we have it folks.

The message for 2024 is to DITCH the lone wolf mentality and get in it, get amongst it, and get working, TOGETHER.

Your life will be better for it, your jobs will be more fun, and I promise your mental health will improve. Do the hard thing and push your social-connection boundaries, just a little.

And then let me know in the comments how it went!


Happy New moon, and soon to be 2024…

XO Kate